Men love their partners to call them Dad. This is similar to other kinks they have in bed. It is a kind of sentiment, which can further stimulate him and satisfy his psychological need for conquest.
Actually, “Call me dad” did not become popular just recently. It has a quite long history. In ancient literature, people were calling their partner “Dad” for fun. It can be seen that not only modern men but also ancient people like women call him father.
This is not an expression that only exists in western culture when in the 17th century, prostitutes start to call their customers “Daddy”. In Chinese culture, women often call their partner “daddy” during sex as well.
Even though this is a tradition of calling their partner “Daddy” during sex, many women felt overwhelmed when hearing this for the first time. Some even lost interest and didn’t know how to deal with this situation.
Exactly why do men love their partner to call them dad in bed? One thing for sure is that this has nothing to do with being the biological father of their partner. “Dad” is an image related to authority, boss and high social status. It represents the recognition of the male dominance status in the patriarchal society and the power status it represents.
This can also explain why ladies normally don’t like their partner to call them “Mom” during sex. Mom normally represents an image of hard-working workers. There will be no temptation to have the power in hand and make people bow down.
In the sexual relationship, “Calling Me Dad” represents a relationship hierarchy. The called party is the dominant party, and the calling party is the submissive one, which is essentially a sadomasochistic relationship.
Another point is that the more untouchable and untouchable things are, the more human beings yearn for and fantasize—this is a flaw or weakness in human nature. Since it's impossible to do it in real life, role-playing like in games and movies can always be done for substitution.
Sexual films in Japan are industrialized, and many films are shot under the banner of incest. Why? Because it has a market, it can satisfy the sexual fantasies of many people.
According to Freud's theory: Everyone subconsciously has the desire to have sex with their parents. This is the so-called "Electra" and "Electra" plots, which will have a sense of incestuous stimulation.
However, not everyone likes to be called daddy, or call other people daddy. We must respect our partner's wishes.
Next time, when your partner asks you to call him Dad, will you call him so?