When it comes to sex, everyone claims to be a student of Kato Taka, using their "golden fingers" to bring pleasure to their partners. However, many women have told me that too many men do not know how to use their fingers to truly serve them. They only focus on their own pleasure without considering the woman's needs. So, how can you really help a woman reach orgasm with your fingers?
- Clean your fingers thoroughly
Before engaging in fingering, it is crucial to remember to clean your fingers thoroughly. This may seem like a basic step, but it is essential for hygiene purposes.
It is also important to trim your nails as closely as possible to avoid any accidental scratches or injuries to the woman's delicate genital area. Additionally, make sure to avoid leaving any white edges on your nails.
Remember, the woman's genital area is sensitive and easily prone to damage, so it is important to take extra care during fingering. By ensuring that your fingers are clean and your nails are trimmed, you can avoid any discomfort or pain for your partner. Don't prioritize your own pleasure over your partner's health and well-being.
- Standing position enhances pleasure during fingering
There are different hand gestures that can make a woman orgasm, as the "Kato Hayabusa disciples" are well aware of. Alternatively, another school of thought is based on the movement of Spider-Man's web-slinging action. Regardless of which school you belong to, the fact remains that you can make a woman orgasm with either gesture. While the hand gestures are well-known, the importance of the woman's posture is often overlooked.
It is recommended to have the woman kneel with her legs apart or stand with her feet slightly apart. This will allow for better access to her vagina and the front wall of her vagina. This way, you can easily and quickly make her reach an orgasm, whether you use the Spider-Man or Kato Hayabusa-style hand gestures.
Furthermore, it is recommended to use the Spider-Man-style hand gesture, as the palm of your hand will provide more friction to her clitoris, making it easier for her to experience pleasure and potentially reach orgasm.
- Pressing, not Thrusting
Many people watch porn where the male performer vigorously thrusts his fingers into the female performer. While this may be effective in some situations, the most important focus should be on pressing, not thrusting.
Thrusting motions may not even be necessary, but pressing is crucial. After inserting your fingers, you should make a "come here" motion with two fingers, using them to gently press and massage the front wall of the vagina where there is the most flesh. Slowly increase pressure or speed to achieve better results, as this is more efficient and long-lasting.
- Don't Let One Hand Idle
Many people think that when using their fingers, they should focus solely on their fingers, but their entire body comes to a stop!
In fact, have you ever noticed that you sometimes leave your other hand idle? Simply holding her is not enough. Try using your other hand to lightly caress other sensitive areas, such as the chest or waist.
It's best to use both hands, either simultaneously stimulating the clitoris and vagina or focusing on one area at a time. This doubles the sensation!
- Fingering isn't about using brute force
Remember, this is not a sport that requires strength, but rather endurance and moderate force. Slowly increase the rhythm and focus on the core areas to achieve success. So, don't use too much force, otherwise you'll be done in just two or three minutes, leaving you feeling exhausted.
- Don't Let Your Mouth Get Bored
In addition to using both hands, your mouth can also play a role. It's best to use your mouth to kiss her sensitive areas or constantly lick her genital area or nearby areas.
On the other hand, you can also use your mouth to say some teasing words to her, which is also very effective! Moreover, I suggest that you use your mouth to ask questions, such as whether she is comfortable, or if she wants you to go harder or deeper. Let her guide your fingers, which can make it easier for her to achieve orgasm!